The discovery of the female G-spot once caused a real stir, although there is still no confidence that it exists. At the same time, few people know about a similar men's zone, but every man definitely has one and it is much easier to find it. All you need is good lubrication and gentle fingers. And of course absolute trust, because not every girl will have access to the most intimate things.
Where is the G-spot in men?
Unlike women who have to literally search for a mysterious zone at random, men don't have to guess where it is. The "G" spot in men, behind which the well-known prostate gland is hidden, is located on the anterior wall of the rectum, about 5 cm above the anus. When touched, it resembles a tubercle the size of a walnut or chestnut and swells at the moment of excitementat.
To find a man's G-spot, it is not necessary to examine the anus. You can also influence the sensitive area from the outside. It is located between the anus and the base of the penis, approximately in the middle of the perineum (there is usually no hair in this area). In some men, the erogenous zone may be slightly shifted to the left or right. To find it, you can ask your spouse or girlfriend to stroke the perineal area with their tongue. From the outside, the prostate can be felt as an almond-shaped seal.
Do all men like to stroke the G-spot?
The sensations of prostate stimulation can vary greatly. Some men experience incredible pleasure (literally to the point of tears), others it helps maintain arousal, while others find the pressure on the G-spot uncomfortable and even painful. But it's definitely worth a try so as not to deprive your husband of a special experience. The main thing is to act carefully and slowly, without sudden movements or use of force.
A good way to test your response to stimulation of this area is to examine it during masturbation:
- By applying pressure to the area between the scrotum and anus just before ejaculation, release can be delayed.
- The impact pushes more blood into the penis, making its pulsation stronger and more pleasant.
- Strong rhythmic pressure mimics the contraction process of the prostate, increasing the intensity of the final phase of orgasm.
- For greater pleasure, it is recommended to stroke the G-spot at the moment of maximum erection, as soon as the body of the penis swells along its entire length. If the sensations are unpleasant or unnoticeable, you should wait a while. If at the moment of complete arousal there is still no response, this area may not be considered erogenous for a particular man. In this case, it is better to focus on stroking the scrotum and penis or continue exploring the area later.
How to properly stimulate a man's G-spot?
If there is embarrassment or uncertainty on the part of the partner, the first experiment may be unsuccessful. But it is possible that the subsequent research will be more enjoyable if the man can truly break free. Special devices (finger attachments, vibration balls, small vibrators), which are offered in a large selection in adult stores, help with such games. You can stroke the G-spot in at least two ways:
- From the inside. The finger or toy should be well lubricated with lubricant and then inserted 5 cm or more into the anus. You should move towards the pubic bone. The sensitive "g" spot can be found on the tuberosity on the wall of the rectum. And then you need to massage it carefully, observing the man's reaction.
- Outside. Here you can carry out stimulation in two ways - oral or manual. A man will be happy to touch the G-spot with the tip of his tongue, which can be alternated with passionate kisses. When stroking with your hands, a gentle water-based lubricant will help improve glide and bring more pleasure to your partner. You need to massage the area with your fingertip using circular motions and light pressure.
At the moment of orgasm, the G-spot pulsates. To increase pleasure, you need to influence it in time with contractions. Followers of Eastern teachings claim that in this way you can delay ejaculation and prolong sexual intercourse. In this regard, the male G-zone was called the "million dollar spot" and sexologists developed special techniques to delay ejaculation. Such exercises will be useful for sexual dysfunction.
Is it beneficial for a man to stroke the G-spot?
In fact, stimulation of the zone can be compared to a light prostate massage. Only the latter is carried out in a medical institution and does not always bring pleasant sensations, as men are associated with negativity and embarrassment. Stroking the erogenous G-spot in a romantic setting is a completely different matter: both the atmosphere and the presence of a loved one favor pleasure. This is a good opportunity to strengthen relationships and give them a more intimate touch.
For health reasons, regular caressing of the prostate is a good prevention against diseases of the male organ. However, only on the condition that there are currently no pathologies on this site and the massage itself is carried out gently and without unnecessary pressure. If G-spot stimulation causes pain or discomfort, it is best to consult a doctor.
It is not recommended to influence the prostate area if a man suffers from chronic and acute diseases of the reproductive system: urethritis, prostatitis, prostatic hyperplasia or tuberculosis, urinary tract diseases, hemorrhoids, cracks in the anus, etc. If in doubt, it is optimal to use light oral stimulation, excluding anal and manual massage of the G-spot.